Maddie is teething and in so much pain some of the time. There are a few things that make the shrieking return - one of them is when we put Orajel on her gums. She does NOT like that! However, it is a necessary evil and she usually calms down after a minute or two. She chews on anything she can get ahold of... yes, even her dad's toe! YUK!!! She still does not like to get to the end of a bottle either. That too upsets her a LOT!
Maddie is starting to sit with less and less support. The high chairs in restaurants here are not made for infants who cannot support themselves and she had a very difficult time in them the first few days. Last night at dinner, she sat in her highchair like a champ. She is really starting to balance herself well.
The bonding is going very well. She is no longer avoiding eye contact with us. The first few days, she would make brief eye contact, but then quickly look away. Now, she makes eye contact with us for extended periods of time. This is a really good sign of attachment. At first, the only way she would go to sleep was to be put in her crib and she would lull or fuss herself to sleep. She did not like to be held when she was tired. Now, she won't go to sleep unless I rock her and sing to her. We'll work on falling asleep without the rocking once we get home. For now, however, that bonding time is way to precious to not take advantage of it.
It has been chilly and rainy here so we are all fighting colds and sore throats. Thanks for your continued prayers during our journey.
Much love from Guangzhou,
Beth, Doug, Maddie, and Grandma Jo
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Maddy is one beautiful little baby!!!
It's so go to read about your attachment experience - it's so encouraging, Beth!
I told Chip this morning, I hope our Lola will smile the way your Maddy does :)
XXOO
Holly
Hi Beth-
we are out this morning but should be back in the afternoon. Do you want to try to meet up sometime in the afternoon maybe after 2:30 or 3:00? We're in the victory, 8311. give a call or email me- kelliinportland . yahoo . com
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