Sunday, November 1, 2009

Trick or Treat

For Halloween this year, Maddie dressed as a duck. We took her trick-or-treating in the pouring rain and howling wind at a couple of merchants in Downtown Goshen. Nice day for DUCKS!
Maddie still loves playing with the dog's collar when he's not wearing it. She snaps it shut every time and does so very quickly.

Uncle Dave confiscated this Harley from the neighbor's garbage. With the exception of one dead battery, it works perfectly. Maddie absolutely loves riding it. For now, it's in the basement. I'm sure by springtime she'll be flying up and down the road on her hog!

Dave's nieces, LuAnn and Grace, were here yesterday and spent the day playing with Maddie. They all had a great time!

Maddie was introduced to McDonald's Play Place for the first time with LuAnn and Grace. She wasn't too sure about the slide at first. LuAnn held her while sliding down the tube. Each time, Maddie had the most terrified look on her face until they stopped. Then she would break out into a huge grin and shrieks of glee. She jumped up, ran over to the entrance, and wanted to go up again.

Maddie's favorite book right now is a scratch 'n sniff book with a bunch of different fruits. This video is of her sniffing the fruits. She makes the funniest scrunchy face when she sniffs the book.

This week, Maddie found a step stool in our bedroom closet. It is one that we had when we were little kids growing up on the farm. It's wooden, red, and had painted on the top, "This little stool is mine, I use it all the time; to reach the things I couldn't, and lots of things I shouldn't." She quickly figured out how to use it!

I was making dinner one evening last week and I heard her toddling into the kitchen behind me, grunting. I turned around to see her carrying that stool. She brought it over and put it down beside me at the kitchen counter, and climbed up to see what I was doing. Ever since then, when I'm in the kitchen, she puts her little stool right next to me and wants to get in on the action.

Saturday, I was transferring laundry from the washer to the dryer. She brought in her little stool and put it between me and the washer and got up again to "help" me. She's still a little too short to be able to reach anything but she had to feel involved.

After I was done with the laundry, I hurried into the kitchen to prep a couple of dishes for a carry-in we went to that night. Maddie followed and put her stool next to me. I was working at three different stations around the kitchen and she was having a very difficult time keeping up - she couldn't move her stool fast enough. So, she pulled two chairs over from the dining room table and placed one at each place where I was working. Then she could quickly climb up wherever I was working. I was stunned! How can a 16-month-old come up with a solution like that??!

Maddie is becoming more and more independent. She eats with a fork, not a spoon. If we try to feed her anything, she shakes he head no and completely refuses. Once we put it down, she feeds herself. She has a stubborn streak that definitely takes after her father's side of the family!

Maddie likes to walk around the house with a pen and small pad of paper. She walks, stops and writes, then walks again. It looks like she's walking around taking notes about something. I told Doug that we're lucky that she is learning to write on paper and maybe we will be able to avoid her writing on walls, etc. Not five minutes later I saw that she wrote on her sheet on her bed, the linoleum in the kitchen, and the table cloth on the dining room table! When will I ever learn to keep my mouth shut!?

Maddie is also a very loving little girl. She frequently wants hugs, kisses, and to just wrap her arms around my neck or her daddy' neck. That is the best feeling in the whole wide world!

Thanks for checking in on us.

Much love,

Beth, Doug, & Maddie

Thursday, October 22, 2009

Grandma, The Wiggles, and Lucy

We went to Terre Haute to visit Grandma Patrick last weekend. They just got back from NM and bought Maddie this adorable hat.

Grandma's friend sent Maddie a bunch of play pots & pans, a tea set, and made her an apron. Maddie played with those toys all weekend.

Monday evening we took Maddie to see The Wiggles (a.k.a. WEE-WEE in Maddie-speak) live at the Morris Civic Auditorium in South Bend. What a show! It was enjoyable even for adults... what little I saw of it anyway. Most of my evening was spent staring at Maddie's backside as she stood on my lap and danced, jumped, clapped, and got all caught up in the show. The show lasted for an hour and 45 minutes and she was into it the entire time. I was afraid that she would lose interest, but no... she LOVES those guys! In one of their songs, they sing, "Bow to your partner," then pause and bow. Maddie bowed right along with them. I didn't even know she knew the song but it became evident that she knew almost everything they sang.

Maddie and her mommy enjoying the show.

Yes, Daddy adores his daughter!

Spectacular show!
When we were in Terre Haute last weekend, we met Lucy and her family for lunch before we headed home. Lucy was in the same orphanage as Maddie and we got to spend lots of time with them when we were in China. It was so cool to see how much little Lucy has grown and changed. She is a trip! She is a month younger than Maddie and is doing pretty much everything Maddie is doing. It did my heart good to see another mama darting after her daughter as she tried to make a run for it when we were getting ready to leave the restaurant! This photo is Lucy's daddy and the girls.

This is Lucy's beautiful mama and oh-so-sweet big sister, Anna.

Maddie is doing new things every single day. She knows animal sounds for cow, horse, chicken, pig, dog, and kitty. She loves to play with Legos. She can sit on the floor, taking them apart and putting them together for hours on end. She is also learning her numbers. The other night on the way home from the babysitters I was counting telephone poles... one, two, three, four, five... and she said six. I thought it was a fluke so I did it again and again she said six! The next count, after I said six, she said seven. She continues to amaze us with all the new things she is absorbing. Of course, along with the good comes the bad... she has learned her first 4-letter word and loves to spew it out... s##t. Hmmm... wonder where she picked that up!

This video is a great representation of Maddie's dancing throughout the entire Wiggles show. It's a little dark but you'll get the gist.

It's time to sign off for now. Thanks for checking in with us.

Much love,

Beth, Doug & Maddie

Sunday, October 11, 2009

16 Months Photos

Maddie continues to grow and change before our eyes. Since she figured out how to clasp the dog's collar, she has to close all clasps she encounters... on her high chair, on her carseat, and even on her changing pad. She's getting quite adept at all of them.

Maddie loves to sing and play the piano. She also loves to play football with her babysitter's 4-year-old and 7-year-old boys. She runs, then drops and rolls just like the boys. She even tries to hike the ball! Yesterday we went shoppig at E&S Sales in Shipshewana. When she saw the tractors in the toy aisle, she got so excited that she almost jumped out of the shopping cart. She has become quite a tomboy. She loves to build things with her Legos. Everything she builds becomes a truck or tractor and she purses her lips and goes "brrrrrrrrrrr" as she pushes it across the floor.

We never thought it was possible, but every day we are more in love with our little girl. Every day she is more fun and more beautiful than the day before. We are truly blessed to have Maddie in our lives.
Enjoy the photos...





Much love,
Beth, Doug, & Maddie

Saturday, October 3, 2009

Growing So Fast!

Little Miss Bed-Head getting her morning dose of The Wiggles.


This week we had Maddie's 15-month checkup. She has caught up in every way and is a healthy little girl. Since we have brought her home, she has gained 6 pounds and grew 6 inches. With her vocabulary, she is ahead of other kids her age. According to Dr. Chris, 4 words is the expectation by this age. Maddie's vocabulary consists of 15-20 words.

When we walked into the doctor's office on Monday, she immediately spotted the aquarium in the corner and pointed and yelled, "Fish!" I didn't even know she knew that word. She amazes us with new things like that every day.


Last night, Maddie spotted the dog's collar on the back of a living room chair. She climbed up, picked up the collar and studied it for a bit, then snapped the two ends together (it has one of those plastic interlocking clasps). She then brought it to me to separate, then worked at it a little bit and snapped it together again. She did that over and over until she had it down pat and could do it without hesitation.

At bedtime last night, once again doing everything she could to fight sleep, she handed me the TV remote and said, "Wee-wee!" (That's how she says Wiggles.) Our girl LOVES The Wiggles!

This was a tough week for Maddie's mama. I went to TN on a business trip for two days and had to leave Maddie at home with her daddy and grandmas. It was a great opportunity for Doug and Maddie to deepen their bond and they did! She is Daddy's girl like never before. When I first got back, she didn't want to have anything to do with me. That was hard. However, the next morning things were back to normal and she loves her mama once again.

While I was gone, we discovered that she likes raisin bran for breakfast! She picks out all the raisins and then eats the bran.

I have a very demanding toddler wanting my attention so this entry is done. Thanks for checking in.

Much love,

Beth, Doug & Maddie

Saturday, September 26, 2009

Where Did Summer Go?

So, my blogging has once again falled by the wayside for more than a month. August and September have just flown by. Maddie continues to flourish and is growing up so very fast.

One bright update... Doug is feeling MUCH better than he did over the summer. While he is still dealing with residual muscle weakness on his right side (MS), his sugar is back under control and he is stronger than he has been in almost 6 months. We are very thankful for that. Maddie and her Daddy are bonding so much now that he has the strength to play with her and to help care for her.

In August, I went to FLto work with our team at our Sarasota branch. Grandma JoAnna went along to babysit for Maddie while I worked during the daytime. We stayed with my Aunt Enda and had a very nice time. Maddie loved the beach, the sand, and the waves.

Last week I had my first full day away from Maddie when I went to Indianapolis for a conference. Grandma Karen came up to take care of her then. It was hard going a whole day without seeing her. Next week I will be gone for two days on a business trip. This time, Maddie will once again stay home with Daddy and Grandma Karen. I'm not looking forward to being apart from my sweet baby for that period of time but I'm sure Doug and Maddie will bond even further if I'm gone.

Here are some new things that Maddie is doing:
  • Climbing! Last week she climbed up on top of the piano keys and started playing the piano with her toes. Then, when she couldn't figure out how to get down, she freaked out.
  • If she can't reach something, Maddie will push a kitchen chair up to it and climbs right up to get whatever her little heart desires.

  • Maddie LOVES the ABC song. She sings along with me whenever we say that song. Her two favorite phrases right now are "ABCD" and "Happy birthday".

  • Maddie has discovered The Wiggles and Barney. She gets so excited when those shows are on. We are taking her to see The Wiggles live in South Bend in a couple weeks (yes, I know... she's a little young. This one is more for her dad's enjoyment than Maddie's!)
  • Maddie responds extremely well to positive reinforcement. She completely ignores or just doesn't get the meaning of the word NO. However, if we get her cooperation and tell her she is a Good Girl or Big Girl, she just glows and wants to do it over and over again.
  • Maddie loves to be Mommy's helper. The best way to get her out of the dishwasher, refrigerator, kitchen drawers, etc., is to ask her to help Mommy close it. She's all over it. She also loves to help pick up toys. I'm milking this one as long as I can!

  • Maddie FINALLY has enough hair for ribbons and bows. YAY!

  • Maddie's favorite people are her cousin Cassidy, Uncle Dave (Frey), Erma and Jayden (her babysitter and son), and both Grandmas. She is a very loving and loveable little girl and is bonding with so many more people than just those listed here. We are blessed to have so many wonderful people in our lives!
  • She's only 15 months old, but we're already starting to see glimpses of those "terrible twos". Every once in awhile, when Doug or I take something away from her or tell her NO for whatever reason, she sasses back. Yes, I said SASSES! The words are not in a language either of us understand, but the tone is definitely there. YIKES... we are in for a FUN time over the next few years.

  • Maddie is a VERY independent little girl. She does not like to sit still at all. Mealtime and church are real challenges.
Bedtime... enjoy the photos...

Maddie taking a walk in Aunt Kathy's shoes. She LOVES shoes. Her favorite pasttime is bringing her shoes from her bedroom into the living room and playing with them or shuffling around in whatever adult shoes she can find.

Maddie and her proud mommy at Lido Beach in Sarasota.

She likes playing in the sand... both on the beach and in her babysitter's sandbox. Every day when I pick her up a the sitter's, she is just filthy. When I undress her or remove her first diaper after getting home in the evenings, dirt and sand pour out. She has such a wonderful time and gets excellent care and lots of love at her babysitter's house. We are very fortunate to have found her.

It looks like she's chasing the bird but she was actually running away. She was scared of the birds on the beach.

Mommy, Maddie, and Grandma

Yes, she has 2 toothbrushes. Normally, she holds one while I brush her teeh with the other. Tonight, she decided to brush by herself - while sitting in the sink, no less!


Our neighbor was getting rid of this Harley so Uncle Dave rescued it and gave it to Maddie. Anyone starting to get the feeling that there many forces at work trying to spoil this little girl!?

Maddie and Red have become great buddies. She uses him as her horsey, stepstool, and companion. Red loves the attention.

We try to get together with Kya and her family at least once a month. It's so much fun to watch the two of them together. They are both growing and changing so fast.

Thanks for checking in with us. Things are just super here.

Much Love,

Beth, Doug & Maddie

Sunday, August 16, 2009

Feelin' Hot, Hot, Hot

It's mid-August and this summer heat is finally upon us... FINALLY! We attended two pool parties this weekend and Maddie had a wonderful time at each one... lots of doting fans to take care of her every whim... even a pool boy to float her majesty across the blue waters!
When it's hot outside, Maddie loves cold snacks... especially if Daddy is having one!

Of course, no really big weekend is complete without a meltdown. Poor baby... she was so exhausted that only sleep could fix this!
Last week we discovered that Doug has a Vitamin D deficiency... HUGE THANKS to Dr. Chris for suggesting on a whim that blood test!! Doug has started taking a prescription to rectify that deficiency and his strength is starting to return. Tomorrow we head to Fort Wayne to see a new neurologist who specializes in MS. Thanks for your continued prayers as Doug's health improves (Yes, those prayers are working!).
Much love,
Beth, Doug, and Maddie

Sunday, August 2, 2009

Hello August!

Tonight, as Maddie fell asleep in my arms, I marveled at just how beautiful and perfect she is. My favorite time of day is when I'm holding her as she sleeps peacefully and I can drink in the wonder of my daughter. I pray that I will always cherish her as much as or even more than I do now. I shed some tears... tears of gratitude that we were chosen to be the parents of this very special little girl; tears for her first mother - the one who carried her for nine months and who gave her life. Does she still think of her precious little girl? Does she shed tears for her? I wish there was some way to assure her that Maddie is so very loved.

Waking up from Sunday afternoon nap time with Daddy.

Last night we went to the Eliases for dinner. It is so much fun to watch Maddie and Kya together. We have to watch that Maddie does not walk all over Kya. Maddie wanted every toy that Kya had, and Kya is just sweet enough to walk away and let Maddie have her way... it will be interesting to watch these two grow up. I can hear it now... "Maddie made me do it!"


We made whipped cream Saturday morning and Maddie had her first intro to licking the beaters.

Maddie does this gesture often. "Vo iss?" ("Where is it?")
Time's up... Monday will be here way too soon. Have a great week!
Much love,
Beth, Doug & Maddie